Authors Note: I this is a piece I wrote on to explain what family really is. With help from the book The Outsiders.
Everybody could have a definition of family. Most people think it is the people like your mom and dad, but some people might not consider that you can have people in your family that are not related to you. In the book The Outsiders by SE Hinton, Ponyboy was raised by his brothers and other boys in a group called the greasers so he did not have a mom and dad.
My family is the people I was raised with. My mom, dad and my sister live with me all my life. But does it have to be the people I am related too. Some people who do not have parents or no siblings might have been raised by other people who would have cared just as much as my family. I don’t think you have to be related to be in your family. A real family consists of the people who love you.
Johnny, who is Ponyboy’s best friend, was raised by the greasers instead of his parents. His dad abused him and his mom did not do anything about it so he turned to the greasers. Dally cared for him a lot, almost like a loving dad or big brother. A similar thing happened to Ponyboy and his brothers. Their parents died in an accident, so the oldest brother Darry, raised his brothers himself with the help of other members of the greasers. Dally and the rest of the gang was always there for Johnny and Ponyboy.
The movie The Blindside is another example. A boy was on the streets and got taken in by a wealthy family. The family started assuming him as another son apposed to be referred as an adopted boy.
"That was the first time I realized the extent of Johnny's hero-worship for Dallas Winston." I think this quote best represents the family theme because even though Dally and Johnny are not related, the still treat each other as their family.
In conclusion a family is not just your dad or brother but it is the people who help raise you or are always there to help you. The Outsiders demonstrates this theme perfectly with Johnny and Ponyboy being raised by the greasers.